I have a friend who is about to foreclose on his home. The holder of his car loan recently came and absconded with his car. He has used up all of his retirement money and is now subsisting on Social Security alone. In a month’s time he will have nowhere to live, no transportation, and he is really too old to get a job.
However, this friend also drinks upwards of $500 of liquor a month. He smokes two packs of cigarettes a day ($300/month), and he plays golf almost daily ($250/month membership fee). This $1,000 he spends on discretionary activities – drinking, smoking, and golf – could more than pay the mortgage and car payment. But, he chooses to live in denial.
Everyone knows someone like this, someone who is living well beyond his means. I once accompanied a friend to a bankruptcy hearing and she insisted we stop at Starbucks for a $4 cup of coffee on the way. To me, the Starbucks was extravagant considering her financial peril, but for her, it was a necessary part of her life.
In order to reduce your debt, you know that you need to either reduce your spending or increase your earning power. Most of us can’t earn any more than we are, so reducing our spending is the key. Evaluating your spending and determining what is necessary and what is discretionary or optional is vital.
Take the time to write down every single thing you spend your money on. Of course you know about the mortgage or rent payment, the car loan, insurance, medical bills, and utilities, but what about the can of Coke you buy at work every day, or the $4 beers you drank last night in the bar? What about the newspaper you have delivered (that you could read online for free), or the expensive latte you pick up on the way to work (that you could have at home or work for a fraction of the price)?
The key to reducing your outgoings has always been to create a budget based on your current income and compare it against all of your outgoings. Then, start crossing off the costs that are not absolutely essential – the beer, the coffee, the new shoes, even the cable television – until you get that number down below your income. By creating a budget – and sticking to it – that allows a little room for emergencies, you will start to save money that can be used to pay your debt down.
